Todo lo que hicimos nos trajo aquí .. esta es tu vida

Hoy 26 de mayo de 2018, después de hablar platicado durante horas con JZ decido que aquí termina nuestro capítulo de amor incompleto.

Te perdono JZ y me perdono.

Por todo lo que nos hicimos, lo que nos fallamos, lo que nos engañamos, lo que nos herimos, lo que nos mentimos.

Te perdono por romperme el corazón, te perdono por todo, por que ya es pasado.

Por que yo también fallé, porque no te valore y ni me valoraste.

Porque éramos jóvenes e inmaduros, porque nunca supimos qué hacer.

Te perdono porque continuas tu vida sin mi, me perdono por no haber arriesgado todo por ti.

Me perdono por no haberte dicho NO antes.

Me perdono por no saber si te amo o no.

Ahora lloró porque lo nuestro se acabo, pero de alguna manera siempre estaremos conectado por todo el cariño que nos queda.

Te perdono y te dejo ir.

Me perdono y doy permiso de irme y ser feliz.

Quiero que seas feliz .. quiero ser feliz.

Ahora sólo somos amigos, no volveremos a estar juntos románticamente y eso está bien.

No somos el uno para el otro, pero somos importantes el uno para el otro.

Sólo nos queda aprender de nuestros errores, no volverlos a cometer y saber que todo lo que nos pasa es lo mejor que nos puede pasar, es lo que elegimos y al final todo tiene un por qué.

Dios sabe el por qué de las cosas.

No sabemos de lo que nos está librando.

Hoy 26 de mayo de 2018, después de hablar platicado durante horas con JZ decido que aquí termina nuestro capítulo de amor incompleto.

Te perdono JZ y me perdono.

Por todo lo que nos hicimos, lo que nos fallamos, lo que nos engañamos, lo que nos herimos, lo que nos mentimos.

Te perdono por romperme el corazón, te perdono por todo, por que ya es pasado.

Por que yo también fallé, porque no te valore y ni me valoraste.

Porque éramos jóvenes e inmaduros, porque nunca supimos qué hacer.

Te perdono porque continuas tu vida sin mi, me perdono por no haber arriesgado todo por ti.

Me perdono por no haberte dicho NO antes.

Me perdono por no saber si te amo o no.

Ahora lloró porque lo nuestro se acabo, pero de alguna manera siempre estaremos conectado por todo el cariño que nos queda.

Te perdono y te dejo ir.

Me perdono y doy permiso de irme y ser feliz.

Quiero que seas feliz .. quiero ser feliz.

Ahora sólo somos amigos, no volveremos a estar juntos románticamente y eso está bien.

No somos el uno para el otro, pero somos importantes el uno para el otro.

Sólo nos queda aprender de nuestros errores, no volverlos a cometer y saber que todo lo que nos pasa es lo mejor que nos puede pasar, es lo que elegimos y al final todo tiene un por qué.

Dios sabe el por qué de las cosas.

No sabemos de lo que nos está librando.

 

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Final

This should be the second or maybe the third time I think I might die…

The first could be when I was in a low cost flight from Amsterdam to Prague. The flight attendant went row by row to ask us to turn off all our devices. Airplane mode wasn’t enough. We had to turn off our devices that was weird. Sergey was in panic because he hates flying, but we landed well.

So I won’t count this experience then.

So, the first time I thought “that’s it” was when a big earthquake hit my city in 2017. Some days before there was an earthquake too. I usually not afraid of earth movements but I was starting to panic because this was taking too long.

Luckily, it stopped. It was just a preparation for what was coming.

I think it was a Thursday, I was in the gym when I started feeling something was moving. I looked at the guy who was cleaning and he just agreed with his eyes to my doubt that it was tembling.

We rapidly left the gym, but we had to leave one by one thru a small space. Then in the stairs an old lady was being helped to go down. So the rest of all we were after her. In that moment I thought that’s it, my end. I wanted to cry. I was about crying. Then I came back to sanity and we were safely on the ground.

After this experience. I had nervous issues for almost a month.

The second time, was today during my flight. The crew told us there were gonna be turbulence, but it was really scary. The first thought that came to my mind was my mom. She would be destroyed if something happened to me. If something happened I would like my mom to carry on, maybe “adopt” one of my old friends like a daughter. I love my mom and I would like her to be happy even without me.

My eyes watered. This time I felt sad by leaving my mom behind. Last time, we were in such a hurry that we didn’t have time to be nostalgic.

I love my mom, but I think I should tell her that if someday I’m not with her, she should enjoy life, spend her money, help the poor.

😊

It´s over .. adiós

Today I had a dream about Josef, I dreamt he came to see me, he was looking very good and I told him something like I almost don talk to you because I dont want to know that you have someone else in your life, I cant stand that. I cant see you happy with someone else.

After my dream I wrote to him that we should meet. I thought we could meet again before deciding if we belong together or not. His answer were not so clear. He told me he had someone now (as I thought) and that even she might be pregnant now.

That´s all.

All I needed to now. It is over.

Maybe God is saving me from something. I remember many things I didnt like about Josef, like his lack of ambition.

I think is better this way.

I cried, yes I did. I won´t deny it.

Maybe is my fear of staying alone forever. But I shouldnt see people as an option.

Yesterday, José wrote me and told me he got divorced and that we would love to see me .. maybe from there was that I dreamt about Josef.

He never told me personal details of his life .. I did … I told him about the brazilians, etc.

He just told me once he would marry one girl there. When he was drunk a couple of times he sent me messages saying I am the one that I should go fast or all is over.

But now all is over.

It is ok, so I don´t see him as an option.

And now I’m glad I didn’t know 
The way it all would end the way it all would go 
Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain 
But I’d have to miss the dance 

It’s been a while since the last time I wrote.

Wednesday, May 16

Last time I wrote, I was “in love” of Fabs, the Brazilian guy. Months have passed since then. And today I talked with him, hehe.

At the moment I’m not romantically involved with any man. Sadly or wisely.

I moved to Canada in January 2nd.

I remember I used to be concerned about how it would be before I was applying for my study program. But I did it and I have been here for four months already.

Time flies.

At school I made a friend from my city but in February she started dating with a Swiss guy from our class, now they are in a relationship and we don’t hang out anymore. During all January we used to hang out practically every weekend and sometimes after class. Thanks to her I joined the gym.

Later, I met other friends. I think, tho I am not sure if they can be called friends and I don’t Care.

This was my chance to start again but I think I haven’t changed a lot or maybe I did.

Later I made friends of my roommates that are mostly from my same country and from a young girl from Vietnam. She is still a teenager so sometimes she is annoying hehe.

I started worked at a restaurant. OMG! I hate when I have to go, but I haven’t gone in 3 days and I already missed it.

Yesterday, I decided to go to my work party in the south of the province. OMG, it was so far away. I arrived late because I had to go to school, but I am glad I went to the party.

I met my Brazilian coworker in the last subway station and then we took a bus and walked and got lost so finally at 17hrs we made it.

I got surprised this girl is just 19 yo, this is crazy I am so much older than her..  :O

I spent a nice time even if I just stayed few hours to the party. At the end, a girl wanted to leave and I said, ok I can go with you. Which, was a good decision so I actually arrived faster to my home and I had to chanced to talk to her. She is older than me, and she is also here studying and well, she is living and facing the same things I am.

Something, Eduard told me before was that we need friends of our age or older and that is totally fine. I mostly hang with younger people but I need friends of my age or older, so I can grow up more .

I miss you

I noticed today was Fab´s birthday and I decided to congratulate him.

He said he misses me.

I wonder if he does. .. maybe he does because he has not a reason to say it if he doesn’t feel this way.

He is in my hometown now I told her I am going this weekend. But I dont think we are going to meet. I dont care now.

Maybe because I didn’t get fit as I wanted, but also because I got over him a lot time ago.

But he is my friend still and I like him and I think maybe he didn’t lie to me and I am special to him.  He is 38 yo now, but he is still hot as fire.

He is in town

He came to give a training in my city.

A friend we have in common told me to go to a bar to watch a match. I agreed since I had no way to escape, then  I decided to invite F. it would be a good excuse, he would be safe since he would be sure we won’t end up in bed together.

I arrived late …thanks to the traffic of this stupidly insane metropoli. F.  told me he had invited some Brazilians friends of him .. GREAT, I thought.

Finally, I arrived to the bar with Ed (my friend) and found F. alone sitting in a big table. His friends had been doing some shopping, later they arrived, one woman and two men, they were pretty nice and easy going.

We moved to a fancy sports bars because we wanted to watch the match. The Brazilian people was very nice cheering to the Peruvian team. One of them even sent some beers to another table where there was a guy wearing a Peru jersey… how cool. I have never seen this and it was nice to see it in a friendly environment.

When I arrived F. hugged me tight .. he always hugs for more time that I expect. My head hurted me a bit due my surgery. When we went moving to the other bar, he hugged me also while walking saying he was so glad to see me again.

Maybe he really appreciates me like a friend .. he was really glad to see me. Later, after returning from the bathroom he hugged me and Ed saying we were his best friends in this country.

Now I get it … I prefer he cares about me as a human being that he waiting to fuck me.

We had a very nice night. I talked in Portuguese with the Brazilian people and they said I had a good accent. He was grabbing me from the waist .. like a game for him being mad at me or something when I was saying something to bother him. It was pretty funny and a bit painful.

We took an Uber and somehow we hold hands. I was watching at him ..he is so handsome … I was admiring him really… Anyway, when he left we kissed as friends do.  I am not sure if he is worried about him falling again in my bed … maybe he met someone else during his way working in Panama… but come on, I should not been thinking about this. I think our lips were near when he left.

After he left .. I wrote him on whatsapp that he was so handsome and hot .. he just replied I was drunk .. probably then fall asleep. Before leaving the Uber he had told us,  remember guys I will be here so we can go out …

But today I wrote him about going out at night … and well, he took too much time in answering and at the end ..we didn’t go anywhere. I guess it was better this way.

Plus, I will start to value him as a person as a friend more than as a piece of meat.

I was wrong … I would treat him as a friend.. that I slept with a couple of times. .. but as a friend I like and I respect.

I was looking pretty today … I am happy now, I was down a couple of hours before.. but now I see how things are.  We are friends .. I will try to convince him to come again so we can visit the pyramids.

He is a great man, I admire him and must keep his friendship.

One thing that I found a bit weird is that before he was never taking pics and now he sent me many pics of him. I used to thought I would never get a pic of him besides the ones I screenshot from his WhatsApp picture, haha. He even took pictures of him on my phone and let them there.  He took a pic of us 3 in my phone and later asked me to sent to him. Finally I have a nice picture of my good Brazilian friend. He even told Ed and I we could go anything to Brazil … hmmm. 

 

 

How do I feel? Friday 29-10-2017

It has been almost a month since I quit my job.

I remember I had a lot of plan of what I could do after quitting.

Well, I have not done so many things as I should have expected.

Why? I am not quite sure.

It is as if I had not enough time. I know it sounds ridiculous, but sometimes I didn’t even have time to hit to the gym.

I realized that not having a “must do” makes me lazy. Why should I wake up early? I dont have a job, so what´s the point?   I have tried it but I didnt success. I am not sure why.

For example, tomorrow I want to wake up early to go for a run, would I succeed? I dont think so was my answer but I think I need to change my mindset. That is? If since the beginning I think I wouldn’t do it, for sure I won’t do it.

I need to change my mindset and start doing all the things I wanna do .